( Suddenly I feel so sentimental out of no way )
Okay , I’m actually not a very touchy muchy luchy person.
I gotta admit when it comes to relationship , I actually
have fears of crossing over the
border line. WTF
When ever I’m in a relationship , I always in the childest
side ( Erm , but sometimes of course I will think straight la when it comes to
serious matter )
Omg , I can’t believe I just say that out of no way but
seriously out of 2 relationship I involved ( SHIT , NOT LONGER A SECRET )
I
admit I really into the first one because it was my first time getting into
something and only works after 1.6 years because I guess is still bit fresh for
both us and yadda yadda. *shy*
Then the second one is actually left me the big fucking huge
holes in my life.
Sometimes I recall back , stupidity of me rushing into a relationship and end up nothing accept I got hurts and posting emo status
everyday in facebook , tweet every freaking second and ( secret dropping tears
every night ) . To my ex-s , thanks for giving me life lesson , I moved on and
now I life better.
Okay , I shall stop yawning about #HISTORYOFARRANFOONG .
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Few weeks back , I have this time of sudden writing love
about my English assignment .
And
I actually feels great about it after all and fucking hell I didn’t score well
during my finals. FML FLL
( Fuck
Lecturer Life ) I admit I’ve find all the sources from friends about their
opinions of love and I used half of them.
( To whoever who gave me opinions , Thank you and even thou
I didn’t score well in finals but I actually feel proud about it . )
Okay , I shall publish it out since I’m currently run out of
topics .
HERE TO PRESENT ,
THE ESSAY OF LOVE.
Love is an incredibly powerful word . But
what is exactly is love ? According to google , love refers to a variety of
different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from pleasure "I loved
the food" to interpersonal
attraction "I love my wife / husband " . "Love"
may refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love ,
to the sexual love of eros,
to the emotional closeness of familial
love, or the platonic love
that defines friendship ,
to the profound oneness
or devotion of religious love.
This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the
feelings involved , makes love unusually difficult to consistently define ,
even compared to other emotional states. Love in its various forms acts as a
major facilitator of interpersonal
relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one
of the most common themes in the creative arts.
Love may be understood a part of the survival instinct, a function keep human
beings together against menaces and to facilitate the continuation of the
species. Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never
boastful or conceited. it never rude or selfish. It does not take not take
offense and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but
delights in the truth. It is always ready to excuse , to trust , to hope and to
endure whatever comes .
Love , from my stance is directly intertwined with trust. Without trust
, love is unable to reach its full capacity . Like a rose , love can be
beautiful thing , but it also has the ability to pierce your flesh like a thorn
and create a scar that will never heal completely. Without
trust in a relationship , this is exactly what happen . Once a person is
betrayed by one they love , that person cannot look at the one who betrayed them
in the same way ever again. Love
is supposed to be a happy thing and this verse says that trust brings happiness
to love . Trust affects every area of a relationship . being able to confide in
someone creates a strong connection by opening up lines of communication . If
you really trust someone , you feel like you can tell them anything and
everything and not even think twice about it. A sense of trust also gives also
gives a sensation of peace. Love is being able to trust someone and have peace
of mind rather worrying constantly about lies , backstabbing or deception .
Love takes all of us through rough time and it from this we learn the lessons
of how to live. A child instance leans to walk safely only when he tries and
falls a couple of times. It is the pain or the end result that makes the
difference to the child , and he learns to walk with perfect balancing . When
we do adjust to such normal or adverse situations since childhood then why
can’t we take simple relationship problems as they are and instead not put it
into flames or high stakes. We being human practice or preach all kinds of
moods and emotions , be it love , jealousy and hatred. It is only the
understanding we need to develop and know what is important in life and make
the right decision. There decisions that we make are not soul made but it does
effect a lot of things around us .
There is times when you may really hate someone whom you love but “ true
love “ is having assurance at all times that won’t be abandoned. Making a
commitment is making promise or giving you words to someone. In a relationship
, a commitment would be a promise to be devoted to those that you love. When
the going gets tough and temptations are string , true love is steadfast in its
journey through time. Love is an unwavering commitment to those that you love .
Weather it be a commitment to a spouse to be faithful to them and have no other
.
There three virtues along with many others are what make love flourish.
Love is anything but simple , but those who learn to love reap the benefits
over time. Love is being able to open up your heart and trust people even when
you’ve been hurt. Love is keeping a solid promise to be faithful and loyal.
Love is sacrificing things in life in order to make those that you love happy.
BY , ARRAN FOONG .
Heh , I actually feels proud about my essay after all and
don’t laugh about it.
· * Blushing *
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